When was the last time you were around someone who understood the real you, and you could feel that by their presence alone?
Perhaps you felt exposed, and repulsed by the experience. That’s common. Some people aren’t ready for it, even if they want to be.
Perhaps you felt truly alive, as your truth was mirrored for you. You’d never felt so clear, courageous and ready to accomplish anything. And then you did, you went on to accomplish many things effortlessly, as you knew those accomplishments were meant for you. You’d always known, and now you’d received clear confirmation.
Perhaps you felt agitated, because some lies you’d clung to, comforting ones, no longer offered you comfort. You knew you had to redirect yourself towards the truth, but you were ashamed of how you’d coped in the past and didn’t want to tell anyone about your experience. So you felt alone, and guilty.
Perhaps you felt excited that finally someone could offer you some guidance. Guidance that, when you heard it, you immediately knew was accurate. It felt like you were hearing your own thoughts, although you don’t remember ever thinking them.
As a result of tens of thousands of hours of dedicated, concentrated inner work I was called to do, for better or for worse, I’ve become a human mirror. I offer truthful, incredibly personal guidance from a place of love, connection and non-judgment, for those who seek it. Some deeply appreciate it, and for others it can be scary or painful. Painful like ripping off a bandaid, or scary like removing one’s mask.
I’ve internalised a framework called Remind that cultivates security, inspiration, courage, gratitude, authenticity, clarity and access to the infinite unknown. That’s how I do what I do. It’s an experience available to every living human, and through each of my sessions, I transmit the Remind framework energetically. This means that through my way of communicating, through the words and logic I use to explain concepts, the Remind framework is passed along to you intuitively, and through practical application.
In February 2014, I was a television executive and poker player living in Studio City, California with my partner of 5 years. I was 32 years old. Things were okay. Not perfect. You know the feeling. I did something odd, which was swiftly up and leave it all, with no personal savings, and with no plan.
Some nice people tried to help me. “What are your goals? If you tell me your goals, I can help you reach the next level. I can help you out of this hole.”
“But I’m not in a hole,“ I’d say. “I consciously chose to make a change. I’ll live minute by minute, and not make any plans. Things will work out better than I can ever imagine.” They were afraid for me, and I wasn’t afraid.
How did I know this strategy would produce fruits beyond my wildest dreams? Well, because:
My future is some combination of the limited things I already understand, and the unlimited things I don’t yet understand.
When I yearn for something specific, I will choose an action that I believe will solve my problem.
However, when I feel content, I’m free to choose any action from a much larger set of options, which is, by the numbers, a likelier place for the optimal action to lie.
In other words:
Future = Certainties + Uncertainties; F=C+U
Negative Actions = Negative Emotions * Certainties; -A=-E*C
Positive Actions = Positive Emotions * Certainties; A=E*C
The coconut oil of ideologies, the Remind framework is simple and effective. It’s the generic formula religions stem from; the barest of bones at the root of millennia old narratives and recent scientific discoveries, alike. The Remind framework, once internalized, cultivates security, inspiration, courage, gratitude, authenticity, clarity and access to the infinite unknown. It’s an experience available to every living human.
Renae Neumann, coach and creator of the Remind Method and AXM Profile Assessment